Ok here is a link to my previous thread [url=http://][/url] ... I still don't know how to link. Long story short my W wanted aNot S so that she could be alone with the kids. We stayed in the same house, seperate beds for 1 year...I would not recommend it to anyone...it was terrible. I found out 3 months ago that she was having an EA with kissing, with 2 different guys. I confronted her about it, told her parents and she cried and said she was sorry, but still didn't want to reconcile. One week ago we moved to different places. I have remained fairly dark since then and have expressed to her that I have no desire to be her friend. So today she asks me if I can help a little with her rent. I tell her that I can't, I am already doing everything I can by paying child support. She then sends me the following text which has been changed a bit so she can't Google it: I know you told me you don't want to be friends and that's ok. I assume your mind goes in circles thinking about the things we went through. Things weren't nice on my end so your approach to this is very understandable. I turned into a f#cling monster that I had to kill on my own. Just know that I have turned the pages and I have learned just like you. The kids are #1 right now and whatever happens between us will happen. The worst part is you're the man I loved the most and the pain takes over all other emotions. That no longer matters, it's a process and we have to make the best of it. Take care of yourself. I'm very sorry for hurting you...just don't drink too much or I'll have to hurt you... I don't know how to answer this. I was thinking of something like...sorry I took so long to anssswer, I am too busszy drinking... Any feedback would be awesome
