Hi Sotto. A tough time and a reality check. We can deal with our loss and move forward but something like selling the family home is a bit to much reality and difficult to cope with. Moving can be very stressful and with the emtional ties on top of that no wonder it's bringing you down.
IMHO , this is one of those times you need to focus on what you have Irather than what you haven't and you are doing that I know
I think your aware of the admiration and caring we all have for you and I know I'm speaking for me than just myself here
For me you've being a shining light on how to act / cope through all this and while I know it isn't easy for you , you still do it
I admire your strength and character, you always have wise and caring words for everyone and show great compassion. XH is a fool , he's lost a great lady and he won't find someone like you again. His loss will be NG or some other very lucky guys gain and I'm jealous and glad for you at the same time. You deserved better than who XH is now and you will find much better and someone you appreciates how fantastic you are
Take your time with all that's happening , you have real life and internet friends who I'm sure are always there to listen and help in any way they can
