Did Not See It - But Should Have

[RDS]

Last night I went out with a social group and it seems as if a lot of the group know my sitch now. One very attractive lady asked me if I was wanting to get back with my W or go on with a divorce. I told her I wanted my M to work. She seemed a little disappointed with my answer.

The pub we went to was the first place a couple of friends took me to on my BD day. It had just opened then. It got so drunk and I was in such a fog that night I barely remember the place. It's actually pretty nice.

Another woman in the group hadn't been into the place in 6 years as she and her XH owned a BBQ restaurant that used to be there. The place has been transformed a few times since then but it was originally a BBQ place. My W and I used to get BBQ from there all the time because it was really good and it was close to home. It wasn't open very long. The woman said the business started out really well but then her XH started paying more attention to the "help" than he did to the business. She said her marriage started going downhill really fast after that. She never wanted to do open a restaurant but he was adamant on doing it. They lost a lot of money and she lost her marriage because of it.

Even though she is divorced and doesn't like her XH (she does like the XH's new wife) she is really pulling for me. While I talked to her I imagined what it would be like to be with her. I will never got there, but it was fun to imagine it for a little while.