I am so sorry that you had a difficult time w/the sale of the marital home. It does make a person stop and think that this is one of the final "steps" that needs to be taken care of to move on. The divorce itself, was just a piece of paper, and yes, we know it can mean different things for people, but it's the selling of the marital home that really brings it all into perspective for many. I'm so sorry this news hit you hard. Cry as much as you need to and then try to look forward to moving into your new place. You will make many new memories in your new place and your friends and family will be there to help you make those memories. You may even get that pup you were thinking about in the spring.
I'm sending you positive thoughts today. I do hope you'll be feeling better soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
