I have been going through a difficult time with my stbx changing her attitude towards me on almost a weekly basis. We separated 7 months ago and up until recently, I moved out of the home and into a room in a house. Now that I have a new high paying job, have moved into a luxury apartment and have kept my course in doing a 180, she says that she misses me and feels that I have really changed as a person for the better. She thinks I am a great father to our kids but then says that she doesn't want to get back together but looks at me with loving eyes. I had almost given up on her and have been setting myself up to hopefully meet someone new when we divorce but her changing moods confuse me. She seems to want to have the arrangement that the kids come to stay with me at weekends but then enjoys going out with us all as a family and helps me choose furniture and takes deliveries for me. She even comes over to watch a film with me and cook me a meal...all very strange from someone that wanted me out of her life. She asks me where I am going and with whom and is generally interested in me. I just don't get it. She filed for divorce 7 months ago and seemed to be adamant that we both had to move on. I, to an extent have but her life is the same and has no intention of dating anyone and just wants be a good mom. Should I see this a positive step to reconciliation? How should I approach all this?
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
