Our wedding anniversary is coming up. I've read a decent amount of advice but figure I should ask anyway. I bought a card to give my wife, but realize it's probably not worth giving it to her and I probably shouldn't even mention anything to her unless she contacts me and mentions it. Correct?

If she does mention it and/or give me a card, should I bother giving her the one I got? My first response is to simply acknowledge it but leave it at that. If love any advice on this as well as some help on how "dark" I should be considering kids are involved.

M: Late 30s W:Late 30s
S: 4 D:2

Known: 19
Together:8
Married:5

ILYINILWY: 8/2015
EA: Confirmed 9/2015, Started 8/2015?
PA: No evidence, W Denies
D: Planned for Spring 2016