I haven't spoken to her about IC, but may try to bring that up as it's something I may look at for myself as well.
I'm not the pro, but IMHO, an IC can only help people with things they really want help with. Can't know for sure what goes on in my W's IC sessions, but I can almost guarantee she has not fully, and truthfully, opened up to her IC about her actions of an EA, OM, etc. A WW would probably steer the IC session in a way that makes her feel like her actions are valid and she's not doing anything wrong. an IC can't predict, or know, the entire story until the storyteller actually gives in to really wanting to get down to the root cause of things... and in most cases, they don't.
