Two days since the laundry question and he seems quite normal. I hesitant to use that word but it does feel normal in many ways. I spent yesterday in the city for alanon and IC and supper with a friend. GAL is alive and doing well at the mo. The two o hour car rides each way is good thinking time and having an audio book on MLC playing.
So I totally get the GAL thing now and self care so as a result there is less anxiety. Yay!
Good thing because it feels like WH is angling to return to mbr. He keeps taking naps in my bed and complaining his back hurts. I've decided, when he asks, to ask him (calmly and serenely) "What has changed since you decided to move out of the mbr?" I'll hear him out, validate and end with, "I didn't ask you to leave, it was your choice and I understand that. I would welcome you back into mbr when we have a monogamous relationship." Not sure how he will react. Thoughts?
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
