Newby here, desperate for some advice

[JRuss]

Thanks, Andrew. My wife is actually a lawyer, too, so she doesn't sweat my lawyer voice too much. And I'm used to hearing hers.

My plan is actually to talk confidentially to one of my partners here who does divorce work for a living when I get back from vacation. Mainly about things I definitely don't want to do in terms of any future custody issues. For example, I know that moving out is a big no-no if you're the H because it can be spun to look like you're abandoning the children. But I'm sure there are other things I'm not aware of and could blunder into doing.