Confirm nothing like this with her again (unless your recovering). Her being there or wherever for your son is her problem and her life to deal with and manage. She's chosen that life for herself so stop making it easier for her to pretend and brutalizing yourself in the meantime. Everytime you get in another one of these situations you drain further any remaining hope of reconciliation. For now, your wife has given up on it so you are the only one that's preserving hope right now, so preserve it and allow the natural consequences of her choices befall her.
Georgia, Yes, still alive and kickin'. For the tournament arrangement it wasn't by my choice. I had to have her permission because half the week falls with her having custody.
Standing firm on the other issues though, including support, etc. It is a very difficult situation.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
