I've started IC, not sure if I mentioned that, but the counselor recommended that I let her know my thoughts on the whole situation. Being that codependency has been one of my problems with MR, laying down and taking whatever she throws at me, really is just more of the same. W and I are scheduled to meet this Sunday. We'll see how that goes.
That wasn't entirely clear, I meant my counselor recommended that I let my wife know how I really feel about everything instead of merrily going along with a D.
God, I wish you could edit posts on this forum :^P