Originally Posted By: darknes

Maybe I wasnt being clear. Let's say you decide to "throw in the towel".

What does that actually mean in terms of what you do or how you think or how you feel? How is your life different from what it is now if you "quit"?


darknes, thanks for the clarification. It's a very good question. I suppose if I "gave up" I would still work on me as I've been doing, but in my mind I would look to the future with the outlook of meeting women and hopefully finding a person I want to spend my life with. I also would sell my house and probably look to get another job in another state to be close to my daughter (wherever she moved to). Right now I'm in limbo and I feel part of my life has to be put on hold while my we are in this phase. If I moved away I really feel there would be no getting back together.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day