Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

We are in separate places and we have a cost sharing agreement in place (she pays her share of the mortgage and I pay a share towards her rent). She's certainly feeling the financial pinch.

The only thing that perhaps I am a little too giving about is when she spends time with D - it's still in the family home, but that's only because she doesn't have a place where she can host her. I don't want to disrupt D too much so this works - W does stay in the guest bedroom on her weekends in the family home.

At some point I may have to ask W to remove her stuff from the MBR, it bugs me seeing it there all the time.

My Pastor, and IC both say it's still to fresh/RAW to be making any hard decisions and boundaries, we are just into our 4th month of separation - plus she hasn't really admitted or come clean to anything other than an EA but I'm pretty sure she knows I know that it's a PA - it's more or less being left unspoken.