Newby here, desperate for some advice

[JRuss]

Another request for advice. My wife pretty often fails to make eye contact with me when she talks to me. It pisses me off, and I feel disrespected. I can't imagine she does this in her professional life. I'm realizing more and more that I have definite doormat tendencies. Is there a DB-approved way of telling her I don't like it when she doesn't look at me when she speaks to me, that i find it rude, etc.?