I think is well known scrip here. Rewrite history, you are the bad guy, it justifies the split up.
For me it got past that point where W would just give up on the blame game. It did not matter, she would take all blame, she did not care just wanted out of the MR.
So I guess you two may get to that point. past the blame game as it does not matter as the MR is ending regardless in W eyes.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016