You give me some hope...I am also in a same sex marriage with a WW wife...I wish I would have found this site sooner because I have been in limbo since Feb....wife keeps going back and forth on what she wants...moved her clothes out in May but we still have kept in contact...I haven't done a good job of DBing but finally said that I can't be her friend if she is continuing to have a EA/PA with this other person...its tough...glad you hung in there!!!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
