SH, I really like the quote about breathing. I particularly like the watersnake image. They are a study in grace in the water, and imagining breath flowing in such a manner is very evocative. It's wonderful.

Miss Vanilla, I am very glad to hear that you are on the mend.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16