Hi Sunny. I understand what your saying but I do think it was a waste I could have been with someone who I could grow old with and enjoy the grandchildren ( hopefully) together with. Instead I now will be enjoying them 1/2 the time ? And avoiding conflict with WW or at best changing times so we don't turn up together
I do see it as a waste also because she's not who I thought she was and I could have found a better match. I think I've told you about the girl that I should have married and there would have been others
So , for me, it was a waste , I wouldn't change it because of my kids but if I could go back before them and change things , I certainly would