She also asked what I thought about our current situation. Honestly, I think she is mixed up and is making a terrible mistake. But I told her simply that "I'm working on myself and haven't really thought about it"
I think that was a really good response.
Originally Posted By: DigIt
If we get together this weekend, should I let her know that I think she's making a mistake, or would that be too pursuing of me? Mind you, I'm not asking her to work on us or get back together, those are my honest feelings on the situation.
I don't know if it'd be too pursuing, but my inclination is to listen and validate. I guess the issue I have is that from your perspective you see it as making a mistake; she may be thinking that this is the path to a blissful and fulfilling life. I think it'd be better to allow her to come to the conclusion that it's a mistake.
Hopefully someone more experienced will respond; I'm not a DB guru by any stretch.
No, that's good advice and I appreciate it. Maybe I shouldn't word it as a mistake, as that isn't very validating. Idk, I'll have to think about how I can be honest without being confrontational.
Also, I should note, I'm initiating zero contact. I'm just responding to when she texts/calls. Other than her contacting me, I'm completely dark.
