He's an a$$hole and he certainly played a conscious role in the destruction of my marriage. While it was my wife who was the one who violated her vows of her own free will, he still did countless reprehensible things that knowingly and directly hurt me and my family. To think otherwise is wrong. All three parties in infidelity share some responsibility and should be held accountable. I don't believe the affair partner should get a pass unless they were unaware the cheating spouse was married.
Cole_
I understand you and completely agree. I don't dwell on the OM; he's a useless waste of human flesh, but anytime I see him I'm going to make him as uncomfortable as possible. (He already knows that I won't back-down.) I told my sons that if ever touches them to call me and dial 911 for the cops then tell the OM that he'd better hope the cops get there first.
It may not be DB, but d@mn my family has been violated and I'm not going to sit around and tolerate that bullsh*t.
