My turn... Part 3

[Cole_]

I understand OM's role. He had more than one opportunity to walk away from the situation. He was encouraging her actions even after I found out and after I sent him a text explaining everything I knew. His one and only response to me was that he was drunk, he was sorry and he would stay away from my wife so we could work on our marriage. Of course that never happened.

He's an a$$hole and he certainly played a conscious role in the destruction of my marriage. While it was my wife who was the one who violated her vows of her own free will, he still did countless reprehensible things that knowingly and directly hurt me and my family. To think otherwise is wrong. All three parties in infidelity share some responsibility and should be held accountable. I don't believe the affair partner should get a pass unless they were unaware the cheating spouse was married.