Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

Thanks for the input! been offline for a few days. W has been surprisingly chatty on her travels with D (they've been away for 2 weeks) so I know she's not seeing the OM, but it doesn't mean she's not talking to him.

I'm getting random txts with pictures, or how is my scar etc. Could be temp checking, could be friendly conversation, could be her being lonely with no adult companionship. I take it for what it is and try not to read too much into it.

I will suggest the Family Therapy after I get back from my vacation with D at the end of July.

Question for the group here... I've been doing my best to follow the DB, but one thing that I'm concerned about (and was also mentioned by my Pastor and IC) is could it be seen as a form of silent approval of the Affair? ie not bringing it up, not challenging her, being nice but with boundaries... it's almost as if she can go off doing what she wants with no serious consequences (other than potentially losing her H, home, and having only part time with her D - which she seems to be content with)


BTW Scar is healing nicely but will leave a reminder of the events for sure ;-)