Out of in house S - On My Own (11)

[vise82]

Hey,

W asked me to look after the boys during and after soccer as she had to go to a walk in clinic, she was no feeling well. I did not ask anymore about it.

I had a good time with my boys, and dropped them off at her house. There was no conversation at all. just drop off, hugs and I left. I short good bye, she didn't respond, and I did not wait for her response.

I sent her a text about how my head aches are worse and I had a MRI soon. After she had to go to a doctor I thought I better let her know what was going on with me incase things got worse with me. She replied that she was glad that I told her and very sorry I was going through this again and that if there is anything she can help me with just ask. And to let her know how the scan goes.

I did not reply. All that means nothing to me.

I have the kids now and the oldest S7 was asking about Christmas. He said the grandma on my W side said that I was invited to there place for Christmas.

I was shocked at first and S7 asked if I was going to spend Christmas with them.

I just said its so far away I don't have an answer.

Now I don't know if I should mention something to W about this. Its not her place to be telling S7 this. I just see no benefit to me going. I would be miserable, it would give false hope to kids. I was planning on just having Christmas with them on my own as per the agreement on the days I get.

Also makes me made, back to the wedding of brother inlaw, I was not invited so why invite me to Christmas. What is the difference?

She has no right to say that to my son. I can see it upset him. It was right before his soccer game he asks this. W was not at soccer and after I let him call her and he starts talking to her she asks how the game was and he hangs up on her crying.

I am thinking I am going to have to mention this to W. That invite should have gone through me first. I should not have heard that from my S7.