We focused on the fact that she feels scared of me. The Dr. laid it out that nothing can happen positively if one of us is scared of the other. We focused on the understanding of her feelings. He says we have to do that first, before we can fix anything.
Scared in what way? Does she have legit reasons to be scared? There have been other stories where the W would "claim" she was scared of the H........but it was just smoke screens.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
