Triple J - I couldn't have outlined my feelings on friendship any better right now. My time and myself is all I have to give, and they are valuable and important and I don't have much to spare. I'm certainly not going to keep giving them to her.
Ellie - Thank you for posting and your thoughts. It confirms what I was thinking. You are right, she will have to try harder and A LOT harder if she wants my friendship. Not that I'm bitter or holding it hostage, just that it is important to me and its obviously not as important to her. She apparently feels I'll always be there and want to be her friend. I'm not going to keep enabling this sickness. It is not good for me.
I am going to email her, for many reasons but also for what you helped point out. I'm not in an emotional state where I even want to talk with her.
Thank you both, I think my blood pressure has lowered.
