Not saying i wont be nice, just not going to go out my way to please or prove to her anything.
The niceness isn't the problem, really. It is the NGS that is the problem. Maybe you can set a daily goal of not caving in to your need to have her approval.
I havent thought if it that way. Caving in to the need for her approval.
I can be nice and pleasant and down right hubby but its just cause thats how i want to approach my day. I want to be happy.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
