Hi NYGal! Wow! I have been absent from the forum for a while and missed all this good news you have! Huge congratulations to you, I'm so happy for you! You seem to be handling the situation brilliantly.
I too am re-reading DR for some hints on how to handle things when your WAS does a u-turn. My H announced at the weekend that he wants to try to work things out. I was totally floored and have no clue what to do, how to handle it or even how I truly feel! I will be keeping a close eye on your thread for tips!