Hi Rouky, just been catching up on your situation. Sorry I missed wishing you a happy birthday on time. Sending you belated wishes now!
It sounds like your counselling sessions are really working well and helping you to see clearly about how you really feel towards your H.
I love Job's suggestion of using your anger to do jobs you've been putting off. I always find I get really stuck into big household jobs when I'm angry too.
Not sure about the weekend activity for your D. I have wondered how this sort of thing works myself. Both my S and D do activities on a Saturday which I have always taken them to and from, even before my H left. It is very tricky now that your H seems to have already discussed it with your D! I can understand you feeling reluctant to 'have' to take her when he has arranged it and also not wanting to look like that bad guy. Does your D seem to very keen on doing it?
