Just an update for you all. Been a while since my last post. I told her three days ago that I was moving out on August 1st and that I cannot afford to pay rent and half of the mortgage. She agreed to that. I told her I was misreble living under the same roof and that I needed a "Home". The next morning she asked me if I was more comfortable when we where living in the same house but at seperate times. I said no that was worse. She sent a text the next day also saying that there was no hurry on her end for a target date to move out so take my time if needed. I talked to my L yesterday and started the final paperwork to be served to her. I told her that and wondered when she would be around to receive them. She is busy so it is hard to pin her down for a time to do that. She asked if she could just go down and sign. I checked with teh L and she said that would be fine and would save me $50 I am cool with that. She will have to go the the L office and sign. This thing is coming to an end I guess. When I told her that she would be served she said well that is your choice. I asked her when she asked for me to be patient with her and she said May, I said I think I have been patient enough. I am pretty well detached, it will be a hard separation because we where married as kids so everything we own and owe it is together. I think this will be a good thing for our relationship as parents and friends someday, as sad as it is. I cannot go on any longer this way in limbo. I hope the OM is good to her...
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
