Hello there Mr. spandex #2!! Glad to hear from you. It's so wonderful that you've been on a journey to heal and find yourself. I have been on that journey too and it does feel wonderful! Thanks for visiting me, I've missed you and thought of you often.
Sounds like a lot going on. I'm not sure how to interpret but I would think it is wise to not "ask" her for things. You know how that turned out in the past. My 2 cents would be to let it happen slowly. If she is coming out of her hole then she needs to do it on her terms and then meet your terms. Like Betsey said, if you're willing to wait.
Yeah it's crazy and it's not fair but I don't see why you would have to change your current ways. I mean, continue to move forward w/yourself and your newfound friends and hobbies and fit her into your schedule as it comes up. So, you go through the D; no reason you can't reconcile later if it happened that way, right? I mean that's how I'm looking at mine.
You said it, people change. I believe there's something to this whole process for us and those that awaken the WAS eventually to come back. It's a sort of wake up call for all of us-them too. As it's been said before, if it comes to a reconciliation, it can be the best thing that ever happened to your M. But that's your choice. I wouldn't rush into anything and keep doin what you've been doin.
Thanks for bringing us up to date. Take care. Talk soon. Tootles..........................
