I'm so confused and feel like I may have already blown it.
CT118,
Chill dude! WWs know how to keep you off balance and constantly questioning yourself. If you do something, she'll be mad. If you don't do something, she'll be mad. What's the one constant? Answer: She'll be mad.
Regarding serving her divorce papers, it depends on who you ask. For someone that's in an active affair, I think you've got to be tough. But that's just my opinion.
