Not sure what to do

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thank you Lim has a great story, but there was similarity for me. Another question, I have just order the DB book today. In Lim's story it seemed like once he found out his W was continuing the affair he got divorce papers. Should I do the same as I just found out the same thing...is that DB'ing? I'm thinking maybe just get/read the book and find out what's inside. I'm so confused and feel like I may have already blown it.

Thanks everyone.