Well, he got up earlier than usual, got ready and left an hour early for work. No contact, no bye, just made it thru his morning routine in record time and Ran out! He must be more hurt than I thot.
Buxom - a lot of others have commented on this and mind-reading which I see you've taken to heart. I still have challenges stopping doing this myself and it is "very" hard to have to realize that this person who you felt you known has become a weird alien living inside their skin.
My own contribution to this though is that while I'm the LBH like you, I've done this same thing. For me - it was avoidance. I just couldn't stand to be around W and for a long time did everything I could (and she did too) to not be in a position to have to interact. In my case as the LBH it was fear of being rejected. In her case (mind-reading warning) it was disgust and loathing.
A benefit of this is that it gives each other space to find themselves and heal. A negative thing was that since I would get to work so early I ended up leaving early and then had to figure out how to avoid W at that end of the day
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
