This is actually a good thing. She opened up to you, you listened, you hugged at the end. How do you think you swung and missed?
Drew, thanks for the reply. I think I swung and missed by allowing the 1st-time meeting to go into R talk. I know talking about our R so early on after the separation can be the kiss of death of getting back together. I wanted the lunch to be something friends do.
Under the circumstances I think I handled it well. My W did text me about 30 minutes after lunch and thanked me for lunch. She said she enjoyed it and she apologized for bringing up talk of us.
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This isn't a sprint, it's a marathon.
Yes it is. That I know. I just hope I have the stamina to endure.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
