At the risk of creating more conflict, I'm a little unsure of something here...
Quote: I'm willing to be her friend only on my terms. That is what is good for me right now. The first term is her not seeing OM. I can't support that and I won't support her while she is seeing him. The second term is her being recognizing her part in this and efforts to attempt to reconcile.
Do you mean a couple hoping to reconcile by starting out as friends or simply friends?
Just need some clarification...
Uh, do you mind if I steer clear of Irish pubs in Seattle for awhile? That was my once-in-a-decade fiasco, and although I LOVE Irish pubs, I'm not normally one whose name is on the marquee as a warning to others...
Ugh! Not one of my better moments, and believe it or not, I still feel ashamed at that. I have probably had 2 beers since that night, though I will admit to having a few more glasses of scotch...
Big hugs coming your way too!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."