My H also told me he no longer believed in love and marriage when we were separated. He told me when we got a D he would never be involved in another R. That there was just too much crap to put up with. He said from then on out it was one night stands for him. Then he had one and suddenly he wanted to be married again. WAS don't know what they want. All they know is that they are unhappy and it must be the M that is causing their unhappiness
