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When she says all this hooey about not believing in marriage or not wanting another R, how do you respond?





She actually said she didn't believe in Love or Marriage anymore.

Not that she didn't want an R anymore. So I guess that means she can have loveless Rs that she also calls friends. Isn't this what Sex and the City and the whole girl genre has encouraged? So many people believe this now, it is very sad to me.

My response was "You are such a sweet person, I hate to think this process has changed your beliefs. That has always been one of your core beliefs and what you've always wanted, love, marriage, children."

She then changed her statement and said she still believes in them, she just won't be as "gung ho" on it. Maybe that means she is not willing to give her heart as much? Very sad.

She is such a master of avoidance she actually tries to change her core beliefs to cover up the pain. She is not alone in this world, she has found many people to support her on this and somehow actually attracts them.

Do I validate this crap and say I can understand how you can feel this way after all you've been through?

Do I stop there or actually point out the avoidance?