Sara, thank you so much for taking the time to share! I was reading some of you threads last night and felt our sitch were similar.
You are right, I am codependent and I was trying to soothe myself and smooth things over. It had been two nice days in a row and I hated that my honesty could derail it. I know it was bond to happen, the ebb and flow, but u just want it to last. Yes, I should have just let it be but I made it worse. Only been dbing for under three weeks. Growing pains I guess.
I do appreciate your input and your wisdom and strength. Thank you!!


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again