Wow seattle old friend! Glad you stopped to update us. I really miss the days of chatting with you and the rest of these wonderful people on these threads, I like you have been just finding myself in my newfound single role, making new friends and reuniting with some old ones as well. In a different way its fun. I miss the companionship and coming home to a face I new, but cant have that so no sence dwelling on what we cant have.

I see in you some of the same things I see in myself, So many people who go thru a D are so bitter. You seem to have found so mabny answers to the issues you understand this has little to do with yourself and much to do with the chemistry of the R as well as your W inability to face up to the challange that you dont seem bitter. I think this BB is great for that, helps us heal in a graceful way that we see so many others in our shoes, we all helped each other heal in a wayn that let out the bitterness and contemp for the opposing sex. I know I still enjoy a womans company and I feel free. I think I like it. God Bless and good luck no matter what way you W finally ends up turning. Hold your coarse and let her make the moves, Eddy