Yes, I have read almost all the threads you recommended. I'm not perfect but making good progress on the pursuing. I'm fighting literally years of wrong behaviours of my chasing him.
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again