And not sure if this has been mentioned but re-connection happens in the reverse order of bomb drop.
First reconnects with things, then pets, then children, and finally with us. This can be a very longggggg process.
Cadet - I didn't know that other than the longggg part. Makes huge sense based on what I'm seeing in my own sitch. My W is up to the pets stage ;-)
Know that this is one of the possible paths helps me a lot with my own struggles.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells