I suppose its easier for me like this, no going back on marriage now I don't think, although a part of me still hopes for R, its been getting easier over the past couple of weeks.
Here is the truth for almost everyone on this forum.
Our marriages are over at bomb drop. The question is when we will get the chance to rebuild them. And how much damage has occurred at that point.
Normally you must take the entire building down to the foundation in order to rebuild it safely. A good foundation is a requirement to rebuild also, don't re-build on quicksand, the house will fall down again.
So how do you keep from the maximum amount of damage from occurring?
