Ok so she's is still not talking to me, states that she doesn't want to get on until I've moved out because of the way ive been with her.

She's really angry still but there is a little more conversation day by day. she's going to get a mortgage on Friday and pay me off for my half.

She says she will see how things are when I move out to see if we can get on or not.

I suppose its easier for me like this, no going back on marriage now I don't think, although a part of me still hopes for R, its been getting easier over the past couple of weeks.