i agree with others - i have done a horrible job of going dark. I start then W shows interest then i cave, after that W pretty much changes tune and leaves me cold again.

If she really wanted to and is ready to commit to you she will let you know herself.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.