I have no friends-except for one. Everyone else are friends that are mutual with him. I hope they stay friends. I don't know how to move forwards. I don't know how to ask him for a divorce, and I feel back asking for support here because it seems everyone else is the one who was left behind, rather than the one who initiated the divorce. Any input, or direction? Please?
Mono, I'm an introvert too. A huge 180 has simply been the act of going out. I have a buddy who's a bartender at O'Charley's. I go once a week, talk to him and his gf, meet the other employees and enjoy being out. I walk my dog when S is gone. We need to try to go on longer walks, I need it to clear my head and get healthier and the pup just loves it. Go out, get you some new clothes. I bought a new shirt the other day. Got all cleaned up, wore it to work. I looked sharp and felt confident.
As for the D, unless you are 100% certain about it, don't file. And I agree with Coconut. You should go to a pro-M IC.
All this advice is probably overwhelming. You don't have to try 42 things at once. Pick one, or two, and try them for a few days. Don't pay his next bill. Wear perfume all next week. Buy a new dress. Just try one, and then build on it.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
