It is great to read your sitch....and that you were able to fight through the tough times and get to at least the place you are at....definitely inspiring.
I have read many times that even a Divorce is just a piece of paper. Keep working on what you need to and good things will happen.
Glad he is back and best to you
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....