Great job with being drug free for five months!

How long have you and your W been together? Has there been any previous M's?

One more question, has there ever been any inappropriate interaction with someone else......from either of you?

Please read the links and advice Cadet gave you. If you will post often, you will quickly build a support group. Hope you will stick with us.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!