Amen to that V-

It's hard to take the one day at a time
It's hard to let yourself feel the pain

It's hard because it could mean it's over

But....make yourself happy. Make yourself the center of things too when not around your kids. I know "you" seems to be not the focus as its the R and the kids but over time that has to change. I feel the same way...I have been ignoring ME outside of my GAL'ing But even when I GAL i still am not all there.

Get the house to a warm & happy place and things will take care of themselves

Better times ahead


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....