Feeling lost 2

[srt]

Hi folks, bumping this up again in the hop of some advice.

My wife recently has been complaining I'm being awkward and I'm "punishing" her - I've been trying to detach and not do anything for her she can do herself. I feel I'm trying to show her exactly what being divorced/separated is like, but do find it hard to reply to these accusations - I've been saying I'm sorry you feel like that, and I'm just living my life the best it can be for me and the kids.

Is this an attempt to reel me in or is it her way of crying for help? She has admitted she is wanting me to sweep her off her feet, yet will not sit down and discuss our future together. She has also said of all the things she wants to do (holidays, travel etc) that she see's me there! She has definitely noticed all the positive changes I have made.

Finding the whole situation very confusing and want to make sure I'm not going to mess up - advice or support please people esp Sandi! x