WW is leaning on me heavily about S and preschool. I try to validate her concerns, and believe I'm doing a pretty good job. "I realize this is difficult for you, I'll keep you apprised of everything." Instead of getting frustrated that I have to do so much for him, I'm happy to work together and do what's best for him.
I think it was smart to back off any talk about the future until the preschool stuff settles (and even then, not say anything until she's comfortable and has begun a talk). If I bring up anything while she's stressed, she'll throw darts and then run like a frightened deer. Plus, if I'm the one to break this rule, I'm probably all the way back at square one.
I think I may have found an IC. Evening and weekend appointments at an office near me! Yay! I need to call in and reserve a time today. I'm scared about telling a stranger my story, and likely breaking down here and there, but excited at the same time.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.